Good News: Finally Agreed to Divorce My Hysterical Wife

1 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:16:12 ID:OIUR
I’ve hit my limit with the constant hysterical outbursts over the most trivial things.
I’ve asked for a divorce so many times, but she always refused.
After pushing her for about 6 hours straight today, I finally got her to agree to it.

2 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:17:01 ID:OIUR
By the way, I’m in my late 20s, and she’s in her late 30s.

3 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:18:54 ID:OIUR
She’s unemployed and lives off an allowance from her parents. Marriage was her whole life.
She probably kept refusing the divorce because she realized that if she got divorced now, she’d never be able to get married again.
At her age, with her high standards, marriage is off the table for her now.

4 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:20:18 ID:B7rY
>>3
Like you’d be able to remarry, though.

5 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:20:33 ID:OIUR
>>4
I’ll be totally fine.

6 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:20:46 ID:qq74
Oh! So your track record is stained now lol

9 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:22:38 ID:OIUR
>>6
Doesn’t bother me at all.

11 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:22:53 ID:qq74
>>9
“Doesn’t bother me” lol sure you’re not just coping?

18 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:25:18 ID:OIUR
>>11
It really doesn’t…
Getting away from a hysterical hag is all I care about.
A little mark on my record is no problem.

7 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:21:13 ID:umx9
Splitting your assets with an unemployed person sounds like a massive loss.

14 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:23:50 ID:OIUR
>>7
I don’t have any assets anyway, so it’s fine. Only thing I’ve got is some debt.

8 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:22:04 ID:OIUR
Even while we were talking about divorce, she was still yelling, “I can’t believe you ate my snack without asking!” LOL.
Her tunnel vision is insane.
We’re getting divorced, woman! This isn’t an elementary school argument.

10 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:22:46 ID:Vx43
Seems like a long road until you actually get her to sign the papers.
She’ll probably change her mind a dozen times.

15 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:24:18 ID:OIUR
>>10
I’ve got it on tape and through LINE messages, isn’t that enough?

20 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:26:10 ID:Vx43
>>15
That just proves she felt like that at the time. You should’ve made her sign right then and there.

25 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:31:30 ID:OIUR
>>20
I didn’t have the divorce papers on me (I’ve tried before but she ripped them up).
I have a recording and LINE logs of her agreeing to sign by a deadline, is that really not going to cut it?

29 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:33:15 ID:Vx43
>>25
According to AI, “It’s not perfect, but it’s pretty solid evidence. Doesn’t hurt to have it.”

16 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:24:43 ID:ckuP
Why in the world did you marry her in the first place…

21 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:27:42 ID:OIUR
She showed me off to her friends and relatives because I’m highly educated and seem to have high social status (even though I don’t).
She was bragging about catching an “elite” younger man.
She could never tell people she was dumped because of her own hysteria. That’s why she’s clinging on.

22 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:27:47 ID:NDyX
Don’t let her back into the wild.
Take her to the grave with you.

26 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:31:48 ID:OIUR
>>22
Can’t. I’ll die first if I stay in this life.

23 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:29:28 ID:OsjM
That’s a meaningless marriage.

24 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:29:40 ID:OIUR
If I was just a trophy husband, I could have dealt with it, but acting as a mental health caretaker for a hysterical psycho is a hard pass.

27 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:32:45 ID:5HJB
You should probably just go ahead and file for mediation at family court.

28 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:32:53 ID:OIUR
I do almost all the housework. The only thing she does is cook, but depending on her mood, she won’t even cook for me.
I’ve lost 5kg since we started living together.

31 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:34:33 ID:wI5l
Seeing stuff like this just makes me wonder, “Why did they even get married?”

32 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:34:59 ID:ckuP
>>31
It’s a mystery why anyone chooses someone like that.

36 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:37:07 ID:OIUR
>>31
>>32
Women change completely after marriage.
Before we married, she was a slender beauty, had a great personality, and was mentally stable.
After marriage, she got fat, her personality turned into trash, and she became hysterical.

41 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:39:23 ID:ckuP
>>36
You should’ve been able to tell before you married her.

44 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:40:40 ID:OIUR
>>41
Looking back now, I did see signs. That was my judgment error.

33 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:35:01 ID:OIUR
When I tried to initiate the divorce, she even mocked my parents by saying, “Are you going to divorce me just because your parents told you to?”
You’re the source of all the problems, you trash.

37 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:38:05 ID:5HJB
Well, they do say love is blind.

40 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:39:04 ID:OIUR
Actually, I wasn’t even in love. She was super aggressive in pursuing me, and she met my criteria, so I just married her.

47 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:41:29 ID:5HJB
>>40
Oh, is that so… Man, it still makes me wonder why you weren’t more cautious.

56 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:48:24 ID:OIUR
>>47
I definitely wasn’t cautious. I introduced her to my friends before we married, and they pressed me, “Are you really sure about this?”
I guess they sensed something back then.

38 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:38:20 ID:OIUR
Common for “marriage hunting” women, but she just wanted the status of being married. She had no real desire to be with someone or build a happy family.
Once she reached her goal, she stopped trying.

39 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:38:42 ID:oPl6
>>1
Is she talking like that hysterical mom meme?

43 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:40:06 ID:OIUR
>>39
You know the one? The “Gyao-Baa” from the “Actress in the Mirror” video?
She’s exactly like that.

48 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:42:15 ID:oPl6
>>43
I have no idea what you’re talking about lol

52 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:45:10 ID:OIUR
>>48
It’s this:

55 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:45:35 ID:oPl6
>>52
Kind of funny lol

62 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:51:53 ID:OIUR
>>55
It’s a funny video if it’s just a character, but for all the husbands in Japan living with hysterical women, it’s not funny at all.

42 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:39:40 ID:OIUR
My wife was the type to put holes in condoms to force a pregnancy before we married.
She literally tried to take home a used one.

45 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:40:46 ID:iObj
Well, good for you. Next time, aim for an 80-year-old heiress.

46 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:41:15 ID:OIUR
>>45
I’m done with hags… I just want to marry someone my own age and live happily.

49 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:42:53 ID:OIUR
I want kids too.
My current wife is infertile, but she hid it until right before we got married.
She promised she’d work hard on fertility treatments, but as soon as we got married, she started smoking like a chimney and I’ve never seen her go to any treatment.
Whenever I bring it up, she goes hysterical and screams. She’s trash.

50 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:43:56 ID:oPl6
>>49
Your wife seems like she’s under a lot of stress.

57 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:49:11 ID:OIUR
>>50
What stress?!
She doesn’t work, she spends all day playing mobile games, smoking, and drinking alcohol.
And I’m the one doing all the housework!

54 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:45:24 ID:QeAD
Once she realizes the divorce is inevitable, she’s going to start claiming you abused her.

58 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:49:31 ID:4Vm4
Are you going to have trouble with money during the divorce?

63 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:53:04 ID:OIUR
>>58
She lives off her parents, so for better or worse, she isn’t obsessed with money. That’s one good thing. Plus, there aren’t any assets to fight over anyway.

66 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:54:51 ID:jpw7
My colleague divorced his wife who always blamed others for everything (not quite hysterical), and he looks like he’s having the time of his life enjoying his hobbies now.

67 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:56:09 ID:OIUR
If she tries to sue me for abuse, it’ll be insane. She actually hit me with a beer bottle, I bled from my head and was rushed to the hospital in an ambulance. The cops took her away that night.
The cop even said to me, “You’re a man, aren’t you ashamed of being beaten by a woman?”—made me so mad.

68 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:57:06 ID:jpw7
>>67
That cop is trash. You’re a better man than him for holding back when you’re physically stronger.

71 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:58:06 ID:QeAD
>>67
That cop is the one with abusive tendencies. He clearly lacks the grace to just take a hit. Move on.

76 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:59:58 ID:ygZ1
>>67
You should’ve sued that cop too.

72 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 09:58:09 ID:SpcX
Must be nice for women that they can get married even acting like that.

77 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:00:24 ID:OIUR
I just want to marry someone normal.

78 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:01:51 ID:OIUR
I thought because she had money, even if I was poor, we wouldn’t be unhappy. But even with money, being with a trash person causes so much conflict. Money isn’t the real problem.
You need respect and common sense.

80 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:05:31 ID:OIUR
I think she won’t pursue a lawsuit because she wants to keep the “happy marriage” narrative going for the people around her.

81 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:07:00 ID:OIUR
She’s the kind of person who, when I was bleeding from my head after she smashed a beer bottle on me, told the ambulance operator, “Don’t turn on the siren, I’ll go to the hospital myself if you can’t do that” just so the neighbors wouldn’t hear about it.

82 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:08:28 ID:SpcX
>>81
Wouldn’t it have been better to just run to a neighbor’s house and call the ambulance yourself?

83 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:09:29 ID:OIUR
I hardly use Instagram, but she forced me to post our wedding photos and tag her.
It’s weird to suddenly flex a marriage on an Instagram account I haven’t used since high school.
But in her mind, involving my friends and family to show off our marriage was the whole point.

84 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:10:22 ID:SpcX
If you had kids, you wouldn’t be able to get divorced and you’d be paying child support forever.

88 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:14:05 ID:OIUR
>>84
She’s infertile, so I’m glad we didn’t have kids.

86 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:12:02 ID:VcyI
What a nightmare. You’re doing the right thing by getting a divorce.

87 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:12:48 ID:SpcX
>>86
He only has her word for it right now, who knows what will happen?

92 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:18:38 ID:OIUR
I really messed up. I had no eye for character.
I’ve learned my lesson.
Next time, I’ll do it right.

93 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:20:35 ID:Z7Hg
Is she cute?

94 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:24:57 ID:OIUR
>>93
She looked a bit like Ringo Sheena about 5 years ago.

95 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:28:14 ID:SpcX
Sounds like a total “Menhera” (mentally unstable) face.

96 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:29:04 ID:OIUR
>>95
She is, actually.

97 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:29:23 ID:v8vq
You won’t know until she actually signs those papers.

101 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:33:11 ID:CU3Q
The psychology of a wife being hysterical toward her husband but refusing to divorce is just beyond me. If it were me, I wouldn’t want to spend one more second with someone I hated.

103 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:34:04 ID:OIUR
>>101
Hysteria isn’t just about hating someone. It’s because she looks down on me and thinks she can get away with anything. She’s taking me for granted.

104 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:35:39 ID:OIUR
And showing off a “happy marriage” is non-negotiable for her.
To a woman, admitting you divorced after only a few years after bragging about catching an “elite” younger man would be a huge embarrassment. She’d be a laughing stock among her friends.

105 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 10:54:55 ID:SpcX
She’s just an accessory to her, then.

106 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Date: 26/07/05(Sun) 11:19:59 ID:OIUR
>>105
Yeah. If it were just being an accessory, I could handle it, but I’m done being her unpaid mental health therapist.

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