1 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:34:17 ID:nVn2
Ever since getting married, all I’ve seen are people playing it safe and gradually declining.
2 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:34:38 ID:cYf2
It just means you run out of room for failure.
3 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:34:41 ID:sLyb
That just means the people around you are losers, so your sample size isn’t useful.
5 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:35:15 ID:j9Ql
Ever considered that you’re the one whose values got left behind?
6 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:35:39 ID:oWTR
What exactly do you mean by “playing it safe”?
7 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:36:01 ID:nVn2
>>6
Having something to protect means you can’t take risks or go all-in anymore.
People willing to take crazy chances are the ones who climb higher in terms of ability and success.
>>7
Of course. You have responsibilities and people depending on you.
What if your company’s president suddenly started some random nonsense, failed, and bankrupted the company?
It’s the same thing.
You just can’t afford to be irresponsible.
8 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:37:21 ID:OLRN
Marriage doesn’t make you stronger. It just means you can no longer afford to stay weak.
9 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:37:43 ID:8z1S
I’m divorced once, and I don’t feel any stronger.
11 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:38:41 ID:j9Ql
From a third-party perspective, unmarried people and divorcees often seem unable to hide their selfishness.
And it feels like they’re the only ones who don’t realize everyone else can see it.
15 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:42:01 ID:deFe
>>11
That applies to married people too.
A lot of them can’t hide the selfish mindset that sacrificing single people is fine as long as it benefits their own children and family.
17 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:43:25 ID:j9Ql
>>15
I never really felt that way when I was single.
Putting your family first is only natural.
12 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:40:06 ID:l2W3
After getting married and having kids, I completely lost interest in high-paying jobs with brutal workloads.
In that sense, I definitely leveled down.
13 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:40:08 ID:zYct
“Playing it safe” lol.
You sound like the type who thinks drinking until dawn counts as living aggressively.
14 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:40:59 ID:deFe
It doesn’t make you stronger. It just leaves you with less breathing room.
18 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[sage] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:44:09 ID:q1DS
Weak people simply can’t get married.
19 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:45:47 ID:BtiM
Marriage makes it impossible to keep validating a weak way of life.
If someone was already operating at a high level, they may seem like they’ve become more cautious. If someone was a washed-up delinquent, they may seem stronger.
The worst case is an average person who mistakenly thinks they’re exceptional and then starts playing defense.
20 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:47:36 ID:Kqa5
Thinking recklessly ignoring risk equals strength is such an old-man mindset.
Unlike guys with nothing to lose, married people have families they need to protect.
21 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:47:46 ID:I0cE
That’s why married people tend to be respected and trusted more. (Ubuyashiki-style logic)
22 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:48:14 ID:9SAX
Didn’t Arararagi-kun say something similar?
Like how friendships lower your “human strength,” so you don’t need friends.
23 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:48:26 ID:j9Ql
The only combat sport without defensive techniques is pro wrestling, right?
If you want your life to be a spectacle, maybe you can live without defense too.
26 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/21(Thu) 19:49:30 ID:Zh3e
Still, I respect people who can get married.
I’m already struggling just to manage my own life. I can’t imagine being responsible for a wife, let alone children.
28 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/22(Fri) 00:00:07 ID:I4KW
It definitely makes you more patient.
29 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/22(Fri) 00:01:48 ID:tl20
You just stop doing reckless things.
And the people who keep doing reckless things after marriage end up becoming tabloid news stories.
30 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/22(Fri) 00:02:19 ID:OWv5
Isn’t being able to let go of your dreams and goals a kind of strength too?
31 Name:Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/05/22(Fri) 00:23:16 ID:tnZS
I’ve noticed I smile less and seem irritated all the time now.
Source: Idiot: “Marriage Makes You Stronger.” ← That’s a Lie, Right?
https://hayabusa.open2ch.net/test/read.cgi/livejupiter/1779359657/
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