1 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:47:38 ID:lqrn
My parents have both passed away, I’m single with no children, and I have no siblings.
Seriously, there’s not a single person in this world who cares about me anymore.
I guess I’ll live the rest of my life in loneliness until I die alone…
2 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:47:55 ID:8skm
You must have inherited something, right?
Treat us to sushi!
3 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:48:16 ID:lqrn
>>2
Actually, I depleted my savings on their long battles with illness and caregiving.
4 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:48:20 ID:huwF
Why not get a dog or cat?
7 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:48:42 ID:lqrn
>>4
I travel a lot for work, do you think I can keep one?
6 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:48:40 ID:Ut6a
You can die peacefully whenever you want.
That’s quite luxurious.
>>6
That’s true.
I have no responsibilities whatsoever.
21 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:50:00 ID:z2p3
>>12
Go to work.
46 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:52:45 ID:lqrn
>>21
I was looking after my parents, and I don’t have any strong reason to work anymore.
I’m just going through the motions now.
8 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:48:45 ID:z2p3
Don’t you have any acquaintances at work?
18 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:49:46 ID:lqrn
>>8
I have acquaintances and friends.
But everyone has their own families, and that’s the most important thing, isn’t it?
They don’t have time to spare for me.
9 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:48:46 ID:AMc6
You should have realized this before your parents died.
22 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:50:20 ID:lqrn
>>9
I did realize it, that’s why I put “finally” in the thread title, sorry if it wasn’t clear.
14 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[sage] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:49:34 ID:NOxJ
You’ll live twice as long without interacting with anyone.
What will you think of lying in bed in your old age?
29 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:51:00 ID:lqrn
>>14
I wish I had gotten married.
15 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:49:35 ID:hbS9
Just hang in there for 10 years, and there will be a lot of people in society, so you can form a community.
31 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:51:24 ID:lqrn
>>15
I’m honestly hoping for that.
19 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:49:50 ID:SFqk
You have onj.
20 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:49:57 ID:Haks
We are here for you.
40 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:52:10 ID:lqrn
>>19
>>20
Thanks a lot.
It eases my loneliness a little.
27 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:50:48 ID:z2p3
It’s the path you chose.
This is what you wanted, right?
58 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:54:03 ID:lqrn
>>27
No, I really wanted to get married and have children.
But I didn’t try hard enough.
28 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:50:52 ID:NQdB
Go find a partner.
60 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:54:12 ID:lqrn
>>28
I was trying.
34 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:51:41 ID:z2p3
If you belong to some kind of community,
you won’t be lonely.
35 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:51:51 ID:qDDS
This is your destiny, isn’t it?
65 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:55:07 ID:lqrn
>>35
You guys should build families properly.
38 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:51:59 ID:Ut6a
If you start looking for a partner now, you’ll only find manipulative monsters who will try to steal your assets.
69 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:55:56 ID:lqrn
>>38
I don’t have any assets, so I wouldn’t be considered anyway.
41 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:52:22 ID:Flw9
But now that you don’t have to worry about your parents’ care,
the rest of your life will be rosy.
80 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:57:47 ID:lqrn
>>41
I can’t find anything I want to do.
43 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:52:34 ID:Ut6a
You seem like a sincere person, so you might be good with pets.
84 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:58:24 ID:lqrn
>>43
I travel a lot for work…
92 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:59:55 ID:MjcH
>>84
Maybe it’s time to change jobs.
130 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:06:07 ID:lqrn
>>92
I’m considering that.
Since I only need to support myself, I want to find an easy job.
53 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:53:40 ID:UcCO
At 44, you can still get married and have children.
88 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:59:27 ID:lqrn
>>53
Women of childbearing age won’t even look at me.
54 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:53:40 ID:0qPj
There will probably be days when you don’t talk to anyone.
94 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:00:04 ID:lqrn
>>54
Besides work, there’s no conversation.
I don’t have any private conversations every day.
62 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:54:38 ID:oHto
You’re in a position to receive public assistance without any social stigma.
68 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:55:42 ID:qQSY
I’m also scheduled to become a complete orphan within the month.
103 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:01:25 ID:lqrn
>>68
Make sure to see them off properly.
71 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:56:03 ID:MjcH
I understand.
I became an orphan 15 years ago.
105 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:01:53 ID:lqrn
>>71
You’re a senior, then.
How do you spend your time alone?
118 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:03:26 ID:MjcH
>>105
I ride my motorcycle and stop at various places.
145 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:09:31 ID:MjcH
By the way, I became an orphan 15 years ago, when I was 26.
At the time, I was married and my wife was pregnant, waiting for our child to be born.
Everything was washed away in a tsunami.
I had a family in my hometown, and the first few years were truly happy.
But the tsunami took my parents, my workplace, my home, my wife, and my child, everything.
After that, it was a living hell. Why did I survive?
170 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:14:26 ID:lqrn
>>145
Your experience is much heavier than mine.
I hope you are in good health now.
75 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:56:49 ID:Flw9
No, it’s just that you have more time to worry now that the caregiving is over.
78 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:57:45 ID:vdRH
I’d sympathize if you wanted to get married and it didn’t happen.
If you didn’t do anything, it’s completely your own fault.
125 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:04:51 ID:lqrn
>>78
Well, I wasn’t popular to begin with, and there was an opportunity, but I chose work over it at the time.
90 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:59:48 ID:NIOO
You should have run away instead of taking care of them.
91 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 11:59:50 ID:Ut6a
Trying to have kids at 44 is a bit much…
Your sperm might be damaged.
102 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:01:24 ID:MjcH
But it’s already too late to get married in your 30s.
You didn’t really want to get married that much, did you?
110 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:02:32 ID:Fm7t
How about a room share?
133 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:07:11 ID:lqrn
>>110
If any of my friends get divorced, I’ll invite them.
122 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:04:14 ID:Ut6a
Many people get depressed just from caregiving.
146 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:09:39 ID:lqrn
>>122
It was really tough.
When it’s your parents, even small things can be annoying.
But you have to endure it.
137 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:08:09 ID:gD0e
It’s good to live for the enjoyment of food.
Like, “Today, pork steak is cheap.”
Lately, I’ve been eating melon and watermelon every day because they’re in season.
159 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:12:20 ID:lqrn
>>137
I’m a little interested in cooking classes.
I started liking cooking after I had to do it myself during my parents’ care.
141 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:09:04 ID:z2p3
If you change to an easier job after 40,
the poor salary and benefits might become a source of stress.
Source: Me
162 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:13:06 ID:lqrn
>>141
Exactly… In reality, an easier job can be harder when something happens…
144 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:09:15 ID:bD8a
It’s too early for your parents to pass away when you’re 44.
167 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:13:37 ID:lqrn
>>144
Well, my parents got married late too.
153 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:10:52 ID:H80M
155 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:11:32 ID:BPiy
I took care of my sick mother for six years and then sent her off, a little earlier than you.
And I kicked my father out of the house and cut ties with him.
You worked hard too.
Thanks to that, I’ve finished building my professional career, but luckily I found a wife who earns money as long as I do the housework.
156 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:11:34 ID:DTGr
Let’s create an onj elderly club.
165 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:13:32 ID:CRfk
I haven’t felt lonely even though I’ve sent my father off and am caring for my mother.
166 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:13:35 ID:VBDS
We’re here for you.
181 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:18:05 ID:lqrn
I’m heading back to work soon.
Thanks for keeping me company, everyone.
183 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:18:17 ID:CRfk
Be prepared, parental care is incredibly expensive!
184 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:18:22 ID:1HV2
I don’t want to end up like this, but I probably will.
194 Name: Unknown Japuzz Watcher[] Posted: 26/06/16(Tue) 12:55:57 ID:Fute
Reading this makes me feel like I’m seeing my own future, and it’s painful.
Source: My 44-Year-Old Self is Finally Becoming a Complete Orphan
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